Respect Us, Our Relationship

For one to get respect one has to earn it. But often we find ourselves in sticky a situation that just leaves us feeling betrayed, used, vulnerable and somewhat helpless.

A relationship takes time and patience, so sometimes we really bear it out and ride on love’s rocky bumpy lanes. Too many times we find ourselves being disrespected by a partner who puts a strain on the relationship and in vulnerable states of mind we tend to see red.

Automatically disrespecting your partner totally signals that you don’t value your relationship like you should and you don’t respect yourself.

Reader if surely you respect yourself I’m quite positive that you would have really taken your time to evaluate self and partner before venturing into a relationship that contains mutual respect. Of course no relationship is perfect but it does not need disrespect, as this will get you nowhere but contempt and division.

Everyone has a right to their own take on how relationships should work and sometimes we frankly don’t need other people’s opinions because there are only two people involved in a relationship. Sometimes we take other peoples’ words for granted and actually allow them to infiltrate or more aptly put or indoctrinate their views and opinions on our relationships.

Honestly, nine out of ten of these people do not have a positive and healthy relationship. It is rather sad that we tend not to act on these little ‘comments’ or ‘barbs’ that a friend or others might send at a loved one. We just let it go and think likewise our spouse should do the same.

You honestly can’t blame a friend for being malicious towards your relationship as this might be a normal thing to them depending on your attitude towards your spouse and the type of person you usually go out with.

So now you’ve met a completely different person different from all your ex’s. Yet your friends still can’t see that and try to put spouse in the same box with the same old pattern of malicious and treacherous ‘attitude.’ It could be that you still possess that nonchalant attitude towards your relationship so they take things for granted. You don’t explain to them to respect your partner and explain about his/her qualities and meaning in your life just like you didn’t the others. Sometimes words don’t need to be heard, it has to be seen. Don’t be so laid back, love is about being free about experiencing and enjoying one’s self. Don’t allow others to underestimate your relationship!

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